Misery Loves Company

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Tuesday 17 April 1945, 7:00 PM

Dearest Eleanor,

          Hello Darling here is your hard working husband again.  I worked all morning and afternoon and didn't secure until four o'clock.

          Then I went to my room, undressed, showered and censored some mail.  After that I read for awhile and then it was time to dress and go eat.

          After dinner we visited around on deck and now here I am.

          Got seven letters today, four from you, one each from Libby, Ruth, and Mary Regan.  This Regan gal sure has her eye out for Leon but with a face like hers I'm afraid she won't get very far.

          Libby's home does sound nice but you have no cause to be jealous.  We've always had more than they did and when I get back and into the groove, you'll have all the things you want again.  "We did it before and we can do it again!"  As far as gifts go, you've got the idea at last.  Anything will be OK.

          Sorry your summer plans aren't panning out.  Yet I think it is for the best.  Just a hunch plus some scuttlebutt but I do hope for the states this fall.  Maybe we'll be lucky for a change.

          Glad you're teaching.  Time goes so much faster when one is busy.  Believe me I know though I haven't said much about it.

          Did Wallie get a medical discharge or what?  I suppose he paid cash at Marbros but you should check.  He might have used you as a reference for all you know.

          That's what I like about you.  Always planning for the future, 1950-1960.  What have you on tap from 1945-1950 eh?

          If you like Nina's company, encourage her to visit you in June.  I doubt very much that she'll be in "our" way.  If I do show up, we'll just disappear, OK?

          My goodness such pride.  Don't be so proud Dear.  Encourage invites instead of turning them down.  I wouldn't feel too badly about the few friends you have.  In talking with the married officers I find that their wives have all had similar experiences since their husbands shipped out.

          Be sure to attend the Officers' Wives Club.  You'll probably meet several women you know and don't forget you all have a common bond and misery loves company.

          Well Sweets, I'm all "writ out."  Tonight's movie by the way is "The Lost Horizon of Shangri-La."  I can't find out if this is the old "Lost Horizon" or a new feature.  Anyway I'll see it and find out.

          Good night Sweetheart until tomorrow.

Loving you always,

Gil

Roosevelt's Death

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Monday 16 April 1945, 7:00 PM

Dearest Eleanor,

          Today begins a new week but it probably won't be different than those that have passed.  I was busy all morning as usual.  Had lunch and after that took a recreation party ashore for the afternoon.  We got back at 5:00 PM. I showered, dressed for dinner and so went another day.  After eating we stood around anticipating a colorful sunset when a rain squall came along and drove us under cover.

          The movie tonight is a revival of "In Old Chicago."  It was first shown in 1938 so I guess it'll be just like seeing a new picture.  I enjoyed last night's "Greenwich Village," I hadn't seen it before.

          No mail for me today so I'm practically speechless.

          How did FDR's passing away affect folks at home?  We got the news at breakfast the morning of the 13th and there were plenty of questions in most of our minds as to who would replace him at the peace tables after the final victory.  All ships' ensigns are at half mast and will remain so for thirty days.  Yesterday (Sunday) special memorial services were held on all ships where a chaplain was available and at sunset we all observed five minutes of silence.  However, the war goes on just the same and I doubt that victory will be delayed any.  It's just the "peace" that many of us are concerned about.

          No more for now darling, so I guess I'll sign off.  Goodnight and pleasant dreams (of me of course).

Yours always,

Gil


Movies mentioned

Filled Thirteen Teeth, Extracted One, Treated Two Gum Infections

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Sunday 15 April 1945, 7:00 PM

Dearest Eleanor,

          Hello Honey.  Even though it was Sunday I had a whole slew of appointments and by noon I had filled thirteen teeth, extracted one and treated two gum infection cases.

          After lunch I went up on the poop deck and got forty-five minutes of sunshine.  Then I went to my room undressed, censored mail and read until 4:30 P.M.  Almost like a Sunday afternoon at home except that my three sweethearts weren't with me.

          After showering, I dressed for dinner and enjoyed a delicious turkey feast with all the trimmings.  Honestly dieting is a real problem but the only thing fattening that I've eaten all day was one scoop of ice cream.

          The mail today brought a letter from Bob Jaffe and a card from my mother.

          The movie tonight was shown aboard at Pearl but I don't remember it.  It is "Greenwich Village" with Don Ameche and Carmen Miranda.  It supposed to be good. I'll be there with bells on.

          I wrote some more letters last night--to Leon, Dave, Ethyl, and Mrs. Mumma.  I'm having a little difficulty keeping up now that I have a few others besides my own special correspondent.  I'll probably write some more tonight.

          There is still no news worth talking about.  Of course the war is moving right along and it's hard to understand what Germany can possibly gain by continuing to fight, but they are doing that.  Okinawa may well be a decisive campaign in the Pacific theater.  By the time the Japs are liquidated there, the Nips will have lost practically all of her fleet and power of production for waging war in Japan proper (listen to "Mr. Kaltenborn!" Tsk, tsk).

          No more for now darling so I'll sign off with love and kisses to you and our darlings.

Yours alone,

Gil

Farewell Party

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Saturday 14 April 1945, 6:00 PM

Dearest Eleanor,

          Hello Honey, how are you tonight?  I worked all morning as usual and this afternoon until 2:30.  I got off some letters to Ethyl, Dave and Leon.  Then I sat around and visited with several other officers and before I knew it was 5:30.  So, I showered and dressed for dinner.

          One of the officers aboard is going back to the states for medical reasons and so tonight dinner will be in the form of a farewell party and we won't sit down until 6:45.  That's why I'm writing now.

          I only got one letter today.  It was from Ruth and Ernie. As usual I got a few chuckles out of it.

`        The movie tonight is "The Great Flamarion" with Eric Von Stroheim.  A murder movie.  Last night's "Pan Americana" was very entertaining.  See it and get a few laughs out of it.

          Nothing, new nothing different out here.  It's been raining on and off all afternoon and am I glad.  It's gotten much hotter in the past few weeks and the rain does cool things down a bit.

          Talking about diets, I am going on one myself beginning tomorrow.  I don't eat spuds, bread or butter now but I'll have to add desserts to my list of taboos.   I'm around 175 and I'll try to trim down to 165.

          That's all for now Sweet.  Good night and take it easy.

Loving you always,

Gil

Watches Repaired

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Friday 13 April 1945, 6:45 PM

My Darling,

          Hello Honey, here is your old drunken husband again.  Began the day with work as I always do.  This being Friday, I had the afternoon open so Alexander could hold "field day."  He did a lot of scrubbing. Everything looks nice and clean.

          After lunch I begged a boat and six of us went ashore for a wee bit of recreation.  We had a camera along and if we were sober enough there should be some good snaps.  We got back at 5:45 just in time for dinner and after eating--why here I am.

          I got both of my watches back today.  One was cleaned; the other had a new mainspring put in.  Both repairs cost me $7.70.  Not bad, eh?

          Much to my surprise I got five letters today.  Look dear, you must snap out of it.  Hearing that you are lonesome and unhappy makes me feel twice as bad.  How's about it?  Let's get busy and keep busy, huh?  OK. It's a deal.

          Send me a list of arrears accounts, addresses and date of last payment.  I'll drop each of them a note.  Maybe I can bring in the balance due.

          I'll look for those maps.  Those in the atlas I have are too small and not detailed enough.

          So you don't like teaching at Lincoln Junior High.  The kids must be "bitches." My, my, such language!

          I'll try to get a pen for you if there are any left.  I really am enjoying mine.

          Your ice cream diet is interesting, but I'll leave it alone. Guess I'll eat and grow fat until I find some means of exercising.

          You are going through lots of money but with your added income we should be breaking even (I hope).  Anyway, what's money?

          Tonight's movie is "Pan Americana," with I don't know who.  It's a new picture so I can't tell much about it until after I've seen it.

          I wrote Marty earlier in the day.  So much for now.  Good night, Sweet.  I'll see you in my dreams.

Loving you always,

Gil

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Typewriter

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Thursday 12 April 1945, 7:15 PM

Dearest Eleanor,

          Hello darling, here is that guy again.  Today was another one of those days.  Plugged away all morning and spent most of the afternoon on my records and reports.  I've got them practically all squared away so I'll be able to take it easy for awhile now.

          I left my office at 3:15 and went up to the wardroom for a "coke."  Then I had my hair cut.  By then it was (just ran out of ink) 4:00 PM so I went up on the "poop" for some sun.  It has been much warmer the past few weeks and even at this late hour the sun was blistering hot.  Anyway I stayed up there for forty-five minutes, and then went down and showered.  After that I censored some mail and dressed for dinner.

          After the batch of yesterday, I got one more letter than I expected today.  Yes, I got one from you.  It is an old one so my comments would just be a rehash.

          I do like the way the typewriter writes now.  It is much easier to read.  Wish I could type.  My letters must be pretty difficult to decipher at times.

          We have a double feature movie tonight.  They are both lousy pictures.  Guess I'll go anyway.  They are "Thoroughbred" and "Under Western Skies."  Last night's movie was one of the best we've had aboard.  "Roughly Speaking" with Rosalind Russell.  Be sure to see it.

          Well Sweets, nothing more for tonight.  Goodnight and I do love you.

Yours now and forever,

Gil

Types

Lt. (j.g.) Gilbert Steingart

U.S.S. Ocelot, F.P.O. San Francisco

Wednesday, 11 April 1945, 7:15 PM

My Dearest,

          How are you today Sweet?  I'm just the same.  Fat, sassy, and working all the time.  Had my usual busy morning but was through by 11:15.  Then I received nine letters, seven from you, one from Marty and one from your mother.  It was lunch time before I was through reading them.

          Gee the maps are swell.  When you send me some more art corners I'll be able to place them in my album.

          This afternoon was spent on my paper work and it was 4:30 before I was through.  I still have several afternoons of book work before my records and reports will be all up to date.

          Now back to my mail.  So many questions.  Alexander types my courses for me.  He is my corpsman.  No don't send the snaps back.  I don't have the negatives so I wouldn't want to lose them.  Besides I'll always be able to fill in the names for you at a later date.

          It's funny but you and I are both thinking the same about my office down to the shells, fish and furnishings.  I have quite an assortment of shells and I'm adding to my collection all the time.

          Thanks for telling me all about Easter.  I enjoyed every word of it though it did make me feel a little homesick to think of what I'm missing.  Sounds like a lot of changes in Santa Monica.  Suppose they're all making money too fast to spend it.

          Leon wrote and told me about the move to Treasure Isle.  I must answer in a day or two.

          Sounds like you're going through a pile of dough.  Take it easy gal.  The fur coat can wait until fall now that winter is over.  $700 worth of fixing on the house sounds like a hell of a lot of dough.  However as usual I'll close by saying use your own judgment.

          Didn't we see the Dunham Dancers once? They sure sound familiar.

          No, the Dental Corps is not separate from the Medical Corps.  It's just that we do our own administrative work rather than have the Medical Corps handle it.  Just a lot of extra work with no more independence than before.

          I didn't get any clipping about the new dental clinic.  Dr. Webster applied to the Navy when I did, but didn't pass physically.  He is a pretty nice guy and used to be a school dentist.

          The car is certainly costing now, but then again you haven't had to spend much on it since I shipped out.

          Sorry the Arrowhead deal fell through.  Maybe you'll have a much pleasanter holiday in the late summer or early fall.  Keep your fingers crossed.

          There is no use my talking to the doctor here.  See Lewis if you're not feeling well.  However you did consult a doctor at the hospital in Diego didn't you? However if anything is bothering you you'd be better off getting some professional advice.  Go ahead and see him.  You don't need my permission.

          This morning I began to shave and my shaver broke.  Well I got some screw drivers, took the damn thing apart, soldered a broken spring and it's as good as new.  I could use a new head for my Schick.  Get one from Marty and send it on.

          The movie tonight is Rosalind Russell in "Roughly Speaking" and is rated very good.

          I must dash now as it's almost that time.  Good night Honey, I'll see you in my dreams.

Love and kisses,

Gil

Lots of snaps ("maps")--Eleanor,Eleanor and Deb,and Dave